Safety

Your security matters — to you, to us, and to the whole community. Here’s how to protect it.

Keep Conversations Secure

We actively detect and remove scammers. Chats on external apps are not protected — keep things safe by staying here.

Live calls can build comfort, but deepfakes can fool the eye. Watch for inconsistencies and pressure tactics.

Sextortion scams often start with compliments — then requests for photos.

Stick to well-known public areas where you can easily leave or get help if needed.

Tell a friend or family member your plans before every date — who, where, and when.

Charge your phone and keep it handy in case you need directions or help.

Use buses, taxis, or your own car — not your date’s vehicle.

Choose safety and comfort by keeping alcohol to a minimum.

Save home visits until you’ve built mutual trust and comfort.

New connections can surprise you — have fun and stay positive.